meet your transformation strategist
I am Shaquita Williams, a 2x Published Author and Your Transformation Strategist & Life Recovery Coach. I am the CEO of Live Thru It Enterprises, where I also serve as the Master Coach. I effectively teach people how to successfully navigate through their negative experiences and past trauma by transforming their thinking, to live a more fulfilling life of purpose and clarity.
I am a firm believer that, “You cannot heal what you are refusing to process and explore”
~Coach Shaquita William, MPA
I started out right where you are...
I was unsuccessful at maintaining emotionally intimate relationships with others. I was unable to date in a healthy manner free of fear or rejection. I was haunted by memories of my past relational traumas, that convinced me, I wasn’t worthy of receiving the love I desired and the intimacy I craved.
It became a constant losing battle
within myself
Often times those who have experienced relational trauma, have difficultly separating themselves from the events and the experiences they have encountered.
I was replaying traumatic events and experiences in my head, while trying to convince myself those thoughts didn’t exist. My relational trauma clouded my judgment and ability to make healthy decisions pertaining to how I chose partners and how I approached intimacy and transparency with my partners.
I knew that my self-sabotaging behaviors within my relationships were driven by limiting beliefs and negative experiences that I had not yet unpacked and explored.
so why did I fail at first?
I made every mistake in the book the first time around
False Validation
Because I struggled with learning who I was and establishing my identity, I became infatuated with others telling me who I was. I yearned for what I thought was love... recognition, validation, and approval
Mistake
#1
Forcing Connections
I settled just to be in relationships desiring what knew they were incapable of providing. I would go out my way to become what they needed or what they were attracted to, no matter how unhealthy it was
Mistake
#2
Trauma Bonding
I did not take the proper time after each relationship to heal from those negative experiences. I began to attract other individuals who also needed to heal from their trauma and negative past experiences. We connected through our triggers, collectively we were dangerous to each other.
Mistake
#3
But I was able to turn everything around!
By incorporating a few strategies and applications along my healing journey, I was able to do the work needed to transform my view on what healthy intimacy and love looked like.
Through these principles and applications, I began to transform how I showed up for myself and within relationships. The love and grace I was able to give myself, I was now able to extend to my partners from a healthy place. I began to embrace healthy patterns of receiving and giving love.
I was now open to Giving & receiving the love and intimacy I desired
I finally figured out the formula that helped me release the fear of emotional intimacy because of past relational trauama I endured
this is possible for you too
Now I have helped
hundreds
do the same
I was a little apprehensive before enrolling in this program, but I can honestly say it has strengthened how i approach dating
Since taking this program I have been able to openly communicate my needs to my husband without fear or frustration
Taking this course literally saved my marriage
I never paid attention to how my past trauma affected me and how I projected those feelings on my partners
You were able to approach present and future relationships with the understanding of the role trauma inadvertently played in your behavior patterns and thought processes
You were able to communicate more effectively with your partners- by transforming those limiting belief s and negative thought processes regarding love and intimacy
You were able to freely experience giving and receiving love from a place of wholeness- by acknowledging those self sabotaging and self protecting behaviors
Imagine
if...
Introducing...
learn
In this course you will
Module 1: The importance of Self-Assessments and Self Inventory
Within these modules we will break down the importance of self-assessments, dissecting mindset shifts and thought processes.
Module 2: Eradicating Fear
Within these modules we will address topics such as self-doubt, self-sabotage, self-protecting behaviors and more. We examine areas of boundary deficiencies and areas of stagnation due to relational trauma.
Module 3: Assessing Relationships with Self & Others
Within these modules we will closely examine the relationships you have with others and their connection to your relational trauma.
are saying
What others
Through this program, I have experienced a level of growth, acceptance and accountability that I know will help in my relationship.
This program was exactly what I needed. I was able to work through the triggers from past relationships without carrying them with me to the next relationship.
Who
is this for?
This is for that individual who seeks a more Fulfilling dating experience with a healthy foundation.
This is for that individual or partner who seeks to restore the spark back to their relationships after experiencing emotional depletion and loss of connection .
This Is for that individual who desires to do the inner work on self alignment and removing layers of unresolved relational trauma
Perks of Program Investment
Lifetime membership Access into our Premium VIP Facebook Community with Resources & Group Coaching Videos
12 One on One 45 Minute Strategy Session Calls
Intimacy After Trauma : After the Course E-Book
Free Digital Gift
Frequently asked
Questions...
Am I able to break my payment up?
Yes! We utilize several platfoms of assisting with making payments including Sezzle, and PayPal which allows you to break up payments throughout the course of the program but applicable with payment schedule
Am I able to complete at my own pace?
The program curriculum is on a dated format meaning because this is a 90 day program, the format of te program must be adhered to a schedule, to ensure efficient and effectiveness. However, you are able to access the material at your leisure and complete modules at your convience
Is this an independent program I will be completing by myself?
Within this 90-day Program, I will be with you every step of the way. You will have access to me via email, phone/video zoom calls and activity within the VIP Facebook group. You will also have classmates, who will be beginning the program the same time as you, which you will be able to interact with within the VIP Premium FB group.
What if I decide this program isn't for me?
If during this program, you decide to terminate enrollment, there is a clause within your contract that allows reliquishment without further payment with specifications including payments previousy made.